I agree that dining establishments should seat people to their preference. When possible.
But when someone is not so polite about their request? That would rub me the wrong way as well and I'd not be so inclined to please them.
Normally when I visit a 'diner' type place I'm asked if I would prefer a booth or a table. I respond with "A booth, please" because that's my preference. If a booth is not available then they won't ask
and guide me to the next available table, I have no complaints with this.
There was one time when I was guided to a table, saw a booth in the final stages of being cleaned/set and
politely asked "Is it possible for us to have that booth instead?" "Oh, sure, no problem they're almost done. Please wait for just a second."
With higher-end (pricier) establishments where reservations are required I expect to be seated at the best possible table (including first come, first served as in the first reservation gets the best table).
There was one high-end restaurant that I heard great things about (including wonderful window seats that overlooked the beautiful area. So I made reservations for four. My LDH, myself and our two young daughters (4 & 6). I did not request a certain table (window seat).
We were guided to our table which was all the way in the back of the restaurant. I saw a couple of window tables that were empty and thought about asking for one of them but then thought they were probably reserved. Once we were seated I took a closer look around and saw that the restaurant was less than 1/2 full and we were the only ones seated in the far back, well away from the other diners. AND! It was right next to the kitchen doors. Possibly the worst table in the house.
It dawned on me. Oh, it's because we have children with us, isn't it.
The food was really good. The ambience not so much, with the doors opening often, hearing the noise from the kitchen, waitstaff passing our table, etc. It felt like we were put in the corner because we were 'bad'. We didn't stay for dessert and never went back again.
Now I do understand the fear of unruly children in a restaurant but putting us in the corner when 1/2 the restaurant was empty? Putting us at a table maybe a few away from the rest of the diners would have been acceptable.
P.S. We dined out often with the girls since they were infants, so they grew up knowing restaurant etiquette. Our server commented on how well behaved they were and actually looked at both of them and said "It was my pleasure to serve you."