I had a friend offer another friend this advice...tell your husband what you want. The other lady didn't think she should have to. My friend told her she could either tell her husband exactly what she wanted for gifts and be happy with the result or could play the "he should know what I like!" card and be mad every time...the choice was hers. So, tell your husband what you like/want. It shouldn't be a big thing to tell him while you appreciate the thought, it didn't really hit the mark. Someone who loves and supports you should be grateful for some direction. Not everyone is a great gift giver.