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« on: March 23, 2019, 12:58:23 pm »
Hi all. Several years ago, I attended a wedding followed by an cocktail/hors d’oevres reception.When we arrived at the venue, the bride and groom had not yet made it, as they were doing the post-ceremony picture thing, As I recall, they arrived at the reception approximately 30 minutes after their guests. The (substantial and abundant) hors d’oevres were out, and the wait staff were standing at stations, ready to serve. I and most of the guests happily dug in, awaiting the entrance of the happy couple. But the bride’s aunt apparently chastised several of the guests ( !) for being rude by not waiting to nosh until the newlyweds showed up. I feel that this was in itself a rudeness, but, that aside, we’re the guests rude for not waiting ? What do you Brimstoners say?