An old friend of mine "Tina" was back in town this weekend. There were a group of us who used to spend a lot of time together around 10-15 years ago. We were in our twenties then, and now most of us are in our late thirties or early forties. Tina moved interstate about 10 years ago, and since then, the old group has largely moved on - many of us are married, some with kids, and most have moved to the suburbs, etc.
A couple of weeks ago, Tina sent a message via Facebook Messenger to the old gang (about ten people in total) saying that she'd be in town this weekend, and at "ABC Pub" in the city (an old haunt of ours) between 4-6pm on Saturday, and that she'd love to catch up with us all if we were free.
I responded to the group that DP and I would both be there. Another old friend (Liz) replied that she couldn't make it, but thanked Tina for the invitation. The other eight or so people mostly responded to Tina's post with emojis - thumbs up, and love hearts, etc. None of them actually said whether they'd make it or not.
Come today (Saturday) and DP and I were the only members of the old gang who turned up. We had a great time catching up with Tina (we were there for 3 hours, and the time flew by!) but I sensed Tina was a little disappointed that no one else had made it.
I can't help but feel that the people who responded with positive emojis were a bit rude - as they (the emojis) can be interpreted in different ways. Eg a thumbs up could mean "Sounds great, I'll be there!" or "Hey, haven't seen you in 10 years but it's lovely to hear from you" or "I have no intention of showing up, but I wish to show my vague appreciation for the fact that you're visiting our city". Frankly, if our old friends weren't intending to attend Tina's drinks, I think it would have been better if they hadn't responded at all, rather than with positive emojis which can be misleading.
What do people think? Is it ok to respond to an invitation with an emoji?