And by the same token--throughout my adult life until about the last decade, when I went places with just my mother, people would make out-loud assumptions that we were sisters. Now I think we confuse the daylights out of them, so they don't say anything because my mom's skin/face definitely looks older (she's in her 70s), she colors her hair and I don't, so I have more gray (silver! when I was younger, I always said that if I inherited my grandfather's silver hair I'd never color it, and I did inherit it ... it's just a few strands now, but eventually, I'll have a shiny head of silver hair).