This is so sad! I just read another article about a family (and probably others on the same street) who all received anonymous letters from a neighbor complaining that the Christmas lights decorating homes are cruel symbols of privilege to those who CAN'T AFFORD A SIMILAR DISPLAY or are offensive to people who don't celebrate the holiday and should be turned off.
Or, as one wag said "I think I read that I should put up even more lights."
People seem to want to be offended by EVERYTHING these days. Someone brags on Facebook that they finally lost the last 10 pounds of the 150 pounds they needed to be rid of and it's: "Please stop talking from your place of privilege. Not everyone can or wants to lose weight. Some of us believe we look beautiful just as we are and you suggesting that being overweight by 150 pounds is unhealthy is offensive to those of us who don't care to waste time being thin." Did you win an award for your creativity? "Not everyone has the ability or talent to draw and it is shameful that you are making so much of this frivolous thing when people are starving." Honestly, I have asked coworkers if they will be upset if I give them a compliment because it has been beaten into my head that giving compliments is every kind of "ist" there is. (I have a coworker in particular who can turn her hair into the loveliest designs and styles and they are eye popping. I look forward to what she will do next. But I am scared that saying so will be considered some sort of condescending smack.)
People would rather be bland and angry and OFFENDED by any little joy or happiness their neighbors might have. At least, that is what I see, more and more among people I once thought of as intelligent, smart human beings. It scares me a little.