Thanks, everyone! I moved back to my home state this summer, with my partner. We will be getting married next month. All of my friends and coworkers from the last 13 years are back in VA and wouldn’t be able to make it. I was just hoping there was a way to let them all know. Thanks for the advice anyway!
Is there a reason why you want it to go out before the ceremony versus after? I'm sure they will be just as thrilled for you if they learn of the wedding a week or too after as they would the day of.
If the idea of knowing they are thinking of you on your special day is important, reach out personally to a friend or co-worker to share the news and they can pass along to others. Then follow up with the traditional announcement.
Would you invite them, if they COULD come? Consider sending an invitation anyway.
Though, COVID....
If there were no COVID, I would say invite them anyway--so THEY can decide whether the trip is too much.
If your numbers are small because of the pandemic, then maybe consider inviting them to a Facebook Live event; those are easy to set up.
I'm trying to think how I'd react if a friend of mine who'd moved away sent me a mass-mailing with wording like this:
"SioCat and Mr.SioCat are getting married on X day at X time in X place. Due to the times, the size of the gathering must be limited, but they hope you will think of them on that day."
I think I'd be OK with that. I mean, you're my friend, right? And I'd know that you had thought about inviting me, and probably would have, except for the health risk. And I'd definitely like being told ahead of time.
True, a mass mailing might feel a little impersonal, but wedding invitations and announcements are printed as well. You can remove a lot of that impersonality by writing a sentence or two at the bottom specific to them. That's informal, but what the hell!
Don't include registry information. If they want that info, they'll ask.
Do include any Facebook Live or other info.
I'm sitting here debating about including website info; if you plan to put some pictures up later, I think you could add a line that says, "Pictures will be posted at SioCatAndMr.com shortly after the event."