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Re: When should you write the thank you note?
« Reply #45 on: June 14, 2020, 01:55:23 pm »
Update:

I received an email from my cousin, the bride, that they got married in the groom's parents' back yard a few days ago, with just his parents and the officiant, with the bride's parents participating by Zoom (they live many states away) and even having the same meal.  They said they are looking forward to having a first anniversary party next June at the venue they'd planned for the wedding.  She included a few pictures, and she looked gorgeous in her gown under a beautiful chuppah. 

I'm glad that's what they decided.  I know that they are disappointed that they couldn't have the wedding they'd planned, and I doubt that as many people will come for the first anniversary as would have come for the wedding, particularly because the venue is so complicated, inconvenient, and expensive. 

It's not important, and it would've been fine if they had waited another year for a wedding, but I think it is nice this way.  It sort of underscores that becoming married was more important to them than the wedding plans. 

Oh, and ... still no thank you note.  :-)