^^^ This reminds me of Erica Girardi aka Erica Jayne who stars in Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. She married the much older lawyer depicted in Erin Brokovitch. They appear to have a solid marriage with mutual respect. She gets to pursue her dreams as a pop star in her mid-40s and he gets to enjoy having a vibrant and outspokenly smart spouse. From what I can see they both genuinely love each other for who they are (and who they are not). Not a marriage I would want, but it’s not my marriage!